A few years ago, I wouldn’t have missed a London Pride for anything. I always considered it more of an excuse for a party than a political statement. While I could do with a party at the moment, given my 100% focus on my final qualification, this year I didn’t look beyond or make any plans for anything other than my course this summer.
I was at work this morning and made an arrangement to meet a friend at the Victory for a final celebratory smoke and drink afterwards.
On my way to the Victory, I came across the Naval officers pictured above walking three abreast down Baker Street. Given that members of the armed services in this country don’t wear their uniforms in public, a little light switched on over my head. “Excuse me. I hope I’m not being presumptuous, but are you on your way to Pride?” One of the officers said yes and I gave him a smile and a salute.
Here, the Navy does not discriminate and it, along with the police and fire services were preparing to march in their respective uniforms. These guys would have been run out of the Navy on a rail if they did that in the US.
I was then struck by the Muslim contingent (middle photo above) and was amazed at their bravery.
Finally, and while the photo is nicked from the Amnesty International UK site : “Love is a human right” is the slogan I have taken away from my brief encounter with Pride this year.
I did make my way past the marchers to the Victory. While I waited for my friend, I started chatting with an older couple; it’s that kind of place. I chatted to them about their plans to see shows and sight-see when the gentleman said, “We can always join in on the Gays’ march”.
Oh yes, ha, ha! (I’m polite company- I’ve honed my skills at Gryffindor over the past couple of years.)
And while we we all laughing at the prospect of them joining in on Pride, the gentleman said, in a, “privately, between you and me” way: “I’d like to take a machine gun and wipe out the lot of them“.
“Oh Norman, you’ve got to change with the times” his wife said.
I rather lamely chipped in: “To each his own, that’s what I say”.
Now, there’s two things about that story: -
1. I am somewhat disappointed in myself for not politely saying something along the lines of, “Oh, but you see, I’m gay and I hope that doesn’t mean you’d shoot me ha, ha”; and
2. Why do people care- and care so much? Honestly, I really don’t care what other people do and who they have relationships with or the nature thereof; it’s none of my business and even if it were, I really don’t want to know. Why then do a significant minority of people care deeply about the matter? Please don’t tell me it’s the Bible or Koran. Do what you like. Just leave me out of it and I’ll extend you the same courtesy!
I reckon that the high watermark for being gay or lesbian in this country was circa 1997 (you remember: Gaytime TV, Brookside’s Beth Jordache, Ellen etc etc) and the tide of tolerance has definitely receded in the following years. I contine to be astounded at the vitriol against gays openly spewed these days when 10 years ago “lesbian chic” was being celebrated on the cover of Time Out.
One naturally assumes that once hard fought rights are obtained they are subsequently taken as read. Perhaps, as a group, we’ve learned the hard way that liberty cannot be taken for granted and that there is some lost ground to recover. That’s why we march. As Harry’s Place quite rightly observes, “Gays are the ill fated canary that tests the human rights atmosphere” and I’m feeling faint from the smell of shite emanating from the supposed liberators and their supporters these days.
While many liberals speculate as to the reasons why we should blame ourselves for Islamo-fascist terror attacks against the West, I know these attacks (commencing at the WTC in 1993) aren’t about “foreign policy” or “Islamophobia”. Don’t take my word for it. Listen to Dhiren Barot . Little Dhiren told us what it was about: “blowing up women at a nightclub would be fair game because no-one could be blamed for killing innocent people, only “those slags dancing around.” So I’m a slag, you’re a slag- we’re all fair game because it’s an attack on our freedoms and our way of life.
In light of the above, and given recent events including yesterday’s near event, one would have thought those engaged in the war on Islamo-terrorism would consider Gays, as fellow ”infidels”, to be their natural allies- at least until our common enemy is destroyed. I don’t see how on the one hand, one can passionately care about Western civilization, freedom from Talibanic oppression and enlightenment and on the other join forces with the very people who are otherwise their enemy.
But hey, no one ever said bigots of any description were very bright.